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Top Tips: When a Dementia Patient Won’t Eat
When a dementia patient won’t eat, we fear it’s at this point where it might be the end of the way. There are a few easy ways to tell whether a failure to eat is just fleeting or whether it signals the body readying for the end of life. Of course, that might be the case. But it is possible that the cause is something else and can be helped.
Giving your loved one a favorite meal is one of the easiest and most popular ways to get them to eat again. This article will explain why dementia patients won’t eat and tips to help them get back to their normal life.
How Long Might a Person With Dementia Go Without Eating?
Whenever a person with dementia stops drinking water, particularly if they’re bed-bound, they can only survive a few days or perhaps a week. When a patient is dying, they typically lose their appetite and their sense of hunger. They also often refuse to drink.
Although individuals can usually go longer without eating than they can without drinking, however, a bed-bound patient who isn’t getting enough food or water at this point is unlikely to recover.
Reasons Why People with Dementia Won’t Eat
There are several things to consider that prevent an elderly one from eating something when they have dementia.
1. Physical Challenges
If your elderly has physical issues, such as chewing and drinking difficulty or constipation, they will avoid eating. One common cause of this is dysphagia. When a person fears choking, they often limit themselves eating or drinking. A doctor may recommend a swallowing test to diagnose eating issues.
Dentures, swollen gums, and painful teeth are all possibilities. Dental treatment, oral hygiene, and daily mouth examinations are all necessary to help them.
2. Depression
Appetite loss is a symptom of depression. Dementia patients are prone to depression. However, successful treatment of depression is possible. Severe cases might require medication and other forms of treatment. Consult the doctor if you think the person you’re caring for is depressed.
3. Medicines
Variations in medicines or dosage can cause a change in appetite. In fact, even if the medicines have not been changed recently, some have a build-up effect. Speak to a pharmacist or your doctor if you suspect this is the case.
4. Communication difficulty
Another crucial factor when dementia patients won’t eat is their loss of communication. Individuals with dementia may have difficulty expressing their hunger or dislike for the food they eat. It’s also possible that they’re uncertain what to do with the food. They will use their actions to express their needs.
5. Feeling Tired
Dementia often causes people to stop eating or stop eating halfway through a meal due to exhaustion. It may also trigger other issues, such as trouble with focus or coordination. Dementia patients can have difficulty concentrating on a meal from start to finish. It’s critical to recognize this and encourage the individual to eat when they’re most active. It also helps to offer nutritious snacks between meals.
6. Physically Inactive
A person will not feel hungry if they are not very busy during the day. In fact, burning calories through activity often encourage our appetite. Encouraging them to be active, as much as possible, benefits their health and helps them eat more.
5 Ways to Encourage People with Dementia to Eat
1. Make eating more convenient
There’s a fair possibility that food will become a problem for dementia patients at any point in their lives. Utensils could also be more complicated to use. Please take into account appetizers to get them to feed quite often.
Sandwiches and finger foods often enable our elderly loved ones to enjoy their food without worrying about spilling or dropping it.
Here are a few tips:
- Keeping your adult as relaxed as possible should aid their feeding by allowing them to concentrate on the meal.
- Sit right in front of them at the table, make eye contact, smile, and wait for them to return the smile.
- After that, you can begin eating without speaking Try to remain calm, polite, and make eye contact while waiting for them to follow in your footsteps.
2. Keep Them Hydrated
For dementia patient who refuses to eat, it’s essential to keep them hydrated. Appetite deficiency can cause by dehydration. It’s even likely, that elderly patients aren’t getting enough water. As a result of their age, changes in their bodies, or medications they’re taking, they get dehydrated more quickly and easily.
Drinking water may feel hard to drink. Instead, serve a soft, liquid meal like cereal or broth to the patients.
Useful Tip:
When giving drinks to someone who has difficulty drinking, try using a straw. Alternatively, instead of thin liquids, use a thickening agent and pureed foods. Have an appointment with a speech therapist to evaluate the situation and understand how to cue others to swallow.
3. Create the Calming Environment
Since dementia patients may get confused and overwhelmed, it’s best to keep mealtime accessible and disturbances to a minimum. Different foods, extra silverware, and centerpieces will all add to the confusion. The old saying, KISS- keep it simple sweetie- definitely applies here.
Useful Tips:
- Offering only one or two foods can help concentrate and increase the amount of food eaten.
- Try to prepare meals in peaceful, relaxed surroundings, away from the television or other distractions, if your senior appears too busy to feed.”
- Maintain a basic table setting as well.
- Try to encourage a dementia patient who is on the verge of quitting that food crucial for their survival.
- Talk with them.
4. Guide Them Gently
You should take on the role of the food guide. As the instructor, the job is to show how to eat every bite as though it’s the first time they’ve ever eaten. Keep good eye contact and a massive smile on your face, and don’t interrupt the individual by chatting.
When you’re trying to support others, and it’s not going as far as you’d like, it can be not very pleasant. They will observe as you do it and gradually imitate it, but they will not understand until you demonstrate it to them.
5. Daily Exercise
Getting an older person to go for a stroll or do some gardening or housework can make them feel hungry. In fact, planning a meal outdoors often spikes the appetite.
Conclusion
When a loved one avoids food, it hurts the caregiver’s heart. But don’t give up quite yet. While many dementia patients avoid eating as their disease worsens, there are ways to make mealtimes more fun for them. If their meal follows exercise and social stimulation, certain patients will be more likely to consume and drink. They feel more motivated to eat or drink and therefore remain well-nourished and hydrated. Also, many find that nostalgic chats around a plate of food help. Please follow these steps and let us know in the comments.
Read More
Planning Meals for the Elderly
Depression and Anxiety in the Elderly
Why Do Elderly Have Trouble Swallowing
Tips for Managing Dysphagia in Elderly
Thank you for addressing these serious and heartbreaking issues. Caregiving for a dementia patient is constantly full of new challenges to navigate, but when someone stops eating and drinking it’s a concern that has to be addressed right away to avoid serious consequences. I think your tips are solid and could help to steer things back to a better place, so thank you for all the ideas to help.
I’m glad you found the information useful, Aly. When the patient refuses food or drink, it adds stress to both the patient and the family. I hope to help as much as is possible in the same way that others guided me with my Dad.
Very timely for me to read this article. Just this afternoon, my brother was talking about his father-in-law who has dementia and can no longer stand alone and refuses to eat. His mind seems totally went back to childhood, or infancy.
As if this is a gift for me and for him from God through you.
I am also concern for him. I am seeing this could help for my sister-in-law and her siblings to help their dad spend his gift of longer years to live. I already shared you post to them before commenting here. Thank you for sharing this valuable information.
Thank you for sharing the information, Rose. My heart goes out to your family as you continue your journey. If your brother or sister-in-law have questions, please have them reach out to me directly. If I don’t have the answers, I can direct them to someone who does.
Hi there
What a great and informative post!
I will definitely use it for the caregivers of my clients. I am a Palliative care nurse and I do see Hospice clients with advanced dementia.
I agree that it is difficult to know whether they are not eating as it is end of life or any of the other reasons that you mention such as constipation or some pain in their mouth due to an infection or thrush.
You have some amazing tip to entice the patient to eat!
Thank you for a lovely gentle article. You know what you are talking about and have awesome information.
Best wishes
Sheen
Thank you for your kind comments, Sheen. I’m sure you have some amazing stories to share, as a Palliative care nurse. During the course of caring for my elderly father for over 5 years, I met some incredible nurses who helped me understand and find solutions. Thank you for all that you do!
It is very difficult for a carer when someone with dementia won’t eat. It often leads to panic and worry which then gets related to the dementia sufferer, which only exasperates the whole situation.
The first thing is remain calm and act as normal. Then I think your very sensible and helpful steps should be implemented.
It is important that the carer should not feel alone, but should seek help from their doctor if necessary.
Thanks for sharing this with us.
Yes, very good points. In most situations, remaining calm and finding a rational route to the solution makes a big difference between success and failure. Thank you for sharing.
My grandpa had dementia and it was horrible. My thanks and prayers go out to health care working who assist with dementia and Alzheimer’s patients because I couldn’t do it. It’s such a difficult way to communicate with people and work with them and it’s never going to get better. You’ll think you made progress one day and the slate gets wiped clean and you have to start all over again.
It does take a special caretaker to manage these issues with people they don’t even know. I agree with your perception. But those who choose to care for their aging parents and grandparents often find the journey has it’s own rewards, too.
This is a very difficult point because we don’t want to see our loved one not eating. I would like to share a study that analyzed 16,000 women concluded that increasing the amount of Strawberries, Raspberries and Blueberries in the diet could halt cognitive decline for up to 2.5 years.
Yes, I have also heard that fresh berries, especially organic ones, help stave off many aging problems. Thanks for sharing that.
Good day, I’m pleased to meet you. Well, I agree with you a hundred percent that giving your loved ones a favorite meal is one of the easiest and most popular ways to get them to eat again. I have read and learned about ways to encourage people with dementia eat, this is helpful. It’s well presented and organized, thanks for sharing.
Thank you. Yes, it’s true that favorite foods often help entice the appetite. However, as we age, that sometimes changes, too. Thanks for reading and commenting. I’m glad you found the advice interesting.
It is indeed not an easy task to take care of a dementia’s patient, need a lot of time and patience. I personally do not have this experience in taking care of the elderly who has dementia. I know how it feels like because i had experience taking care of my late father who was bedridden and unable to eat and drink. Really a tough time for us and it is really heart- breaking to see your love one getting skinner and weaker because he was unable to eat and drink. After reading this post, make me ponder…. how i wish i can do more …..
I’m sorry to hear of your father’s problems, Jessie. I am sure he was thankful to have you with him, even though you could not solve all of the issues of eating and drinking. I know it’s difficult as I had a similar experience with my own father.
Perhaps in the future more will be known about how to manage the problems incurred as we age.