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Choosing a new pet
Often the senior does not have a pet. Perhaps their old companion passed away. Or maybe their situation did not allow.
The change to living with you might prove to be a good time to adopt a new companion. Leaving home and feeling apprehensive, your senior might find the new pet extra comforting.
It’s important to find a pet that fits the needs of the person.
Opting for a new Boston Terrier just like the one he had as a kid might work, or not. Assess the situation as it is now and the expectations to come. Assure that the pet is fully compatible both now and in the expected future.
In many cases, adopting a senior pet is a much better option than a young puppy or kitten. If possible, opt for a pet who has recently lost his beloved person. Such animals are in great need, especially emotionally. Moreover, they often bond quickly to their new companion and both benefit.
The great “what if…”
Ideally, pets and their humans have many years together and another is able to step in when a companion passes. It’s best to plan ahead for all instances.
What if the pet passes before your senior loved one? You might choose another pet at that time, if the situation allows. Visitation with other pets is another option.
What if the human passes before the pet? It’s best to have a plan in place early. Losing your Mom, Dad, or Grandparent is hard enough. Discuss the subject with your senior, if appropriate. Would they prefer you keep the pet or find another elderly that might benefit from a beloved companion? If you or a family member will keep the pet, how will the care arrangements work? Many include these arrangements in the will.
Similarly, what if the human passes and no arrangements can be made for the pet?
Some rescues will help, as will veterinarians. Be prepared to keep the pet for a time, until arrangements can be made. Often, a relative or friend steps in and assists to help the family in this emotional time.
Pets and people, natural companions
For thousands of years, pets have helped humans in many ways. They continue to provide health and emotional benefits to all, but especially to those in the senior years.
Consider our companions as part of the family. Indeed, they are integral members with a special bond to their elderly loved ones.
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